Drawing the Line: A Closer Look at Minors and Consent in Nepal

Recently, there was a very serious matter in Nepal involving two famous people and their relationship with a minor. This incident has made us realize that many people don’t fully understand the concept of rape with minors (Victim of cricketer’s case is not a minor). The final verdict of star cricketer proved him guilty but the girl was not a minor according to the court. Similarly, supreme court has ordered for a revision in the case of the actor who was made free of all charges after the victim changed her statement ‘as she felt pity for him’.

The law is clear that minors, which means young people under 18, cannot give permission for sex. Even if a young person seems okay with it or says ‘yes,’ it’s not considered permission under the law. The law understands that young people are not ready to make certain decisions, especially about things like sex. So, even if a young person seems willing, it’s never okay for an adult or older teenager to engage in any sexual activity with them.

It’s the responsibility of adults to set clear rules and boundaries with young people. Sometimes, adults might try to make excuses, saying the young person wanted it or started it. But that’s never a valid reason. Phrases like “Age is just a number” or “They look and act older, so it’s okay” are not acceptable justifications.

If someone you know is not clear about the rules with young people, it’s important to remind them that they have to set clear limits. And it’s crucial to tell them about the serious consequences they might face if they don’t.

In addition, our society needs to be open-minded and accept the concept of statutory rape. This means that no matter what the relationship is between an adult and a young person, any sexual activity is considered rape. We should demand strong punishment for anyone involved in such crimes.

Absolutely, an essential aspect of understanding consent is acknowledging that a “no” always means “no.” It’s crucial to emphasize that even if someone enjoys your company or spends time with you, it doesn’t imply consent for any sexual activity. Consent is explicit and affirmative, and it must be communicated clearly.

The absence of a clear and enthusiastic “yes” means that any form of sexual engagement is off-limits. It’s vital for individuals to respect boundaries and understand that consent can be withdrawn at any point during an interaction. Creating an environment where open communication is encouraged and where the autonomy and feelings of all parties involved are prioritized is fundamental to fostering healthy relationships. Remember, consent is an ongoing and mutual agreement that can be given or withheld at any time.

Furthermore, it’s imperative to stress that individuals in positions of stardom or influence should never exploit their status for personal gain, especially in matters of consent. No one, regardless of their fame or prominence, is exempt from the principles of respect and ethical behavior. Using one’s celebrity status to pressure or manipulate others into any form of sexual activity is not only morally wrong but is a violation of trust and basic human rights.

Society must hold public figures accountable for their actions and emphasize that consent is an equal and non-negotiable aspect of all interactions. Creating a culture that condemns the abuse of power and ensures that everyone is treated with dignity and respect is essential for fostering a safe and inclusive environment for all.

It’s really important to talk openly about why minors can’t agree to sex. By understanding this, we can protect young people better and make sure they grow up in a safe and respectful environment.