Nepali Parents Never Say ‘I Love You’ or Hug You, Insted They Use These 7 Ways to Confess Their Love Anyway

Ever wondered why Nepali parents rarely utter those three little words – “I love you”? We see it all the time in movies, kids throwing their arms around their parents and blurting out their affection. But in our Nepali homes, love takes a different shape, a quieter, subtler form.

Think of it like a delicious momo filling hidden inside a crispy dough. The outer layer might seem plain, but take a bite, and the explosion of flavors tells you a whole different story. That’s how Nepali parents express their love – through actions, not always through words.

So, let’s peek inside this momo of Nepali love, shall we?

1. Khana khayou? K khaies?

This isn’t just a casual question. It’s a mantra, a constant reminder that they care about your well-being, that a full stomach equals happiness. They also follow up the question with “K Khaies?”. We may find that annoying and even lie sometimes, but trust me they have genuine concern what we ate.

2. Paisa xa ki xaina?

Not an intrusive inquiry, but a way to make sure you’re not facing any struggles. They might not also have enought and may not shower you with luxuries, but they’ll quietly slip a few rupees into your pocket, ensuring you have what you need.

3. Body and head massage with oil

Remember those long oil massages after a tiring day? Those gentle strokes aren’t just soothing your muscles; they’re whispering love, a wordless “I’m here for you.”

4. Random greetings

A sudden Facebook forward of a random motivational video at 3 AM? Don’t dismiss it as spam! It’s their way of saying, “Keep going, champ, I believe in you.” Even if they can’t always be there physically, their spirit motivates you from afar.

5. The Food Fetish

Who can resist extra momos or masu? When they pile your plate with your favorite dish, it’s not just about satisfying your hunger; it’s a way of saying, “You bring joy to my life, and I want you to be happy.”

6. Send things from home

A jar of homemade ghee, pack of Shatu, or even that second-hand cycle (when you were kid) they found at the bazaar – these seemingly ordinary things carry immense weight. They represent their sacrifice, their dedication to your well-being.

7. Say Teraai ramro ko lagi vanya ho

This is one of the often dialogue of our parents. The lines tends to say us that, “We always care for your betterment and we have sacrificed a lot for you.” Their suggestion and thinking may not always be 100% correct but their intention will always be positive no matter what.

See, Nepali parents might not say “I love you” out loud, but their love echoes in every “Khana khayou?”, in every worried glance, in every small gesture. It’s a love woven into the fabric of their being, a silent symphony that plays on in our hearts long after they’re gone.

So, the next time you crave that familiar “I love you,” just listen closely. It’s whispered in the sizzle of momos, in the warmth of a shawl, in the quiet understanding of your tired sigh. Nepali parents may not say it, but their love speaks volumes.

Now, go ahead, give your parents a big hug, and maybe whisper back, “Mummy, Baba, I love you.” Because sometimes, even the unspoken needs to be heard. Share this post and tag your parents, just to let them know you understand their love.